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How To Care For Your Dearie!

Hello my beautiful friends and family, how are you? Today, I am going to inspire all the men around the world on how to take care of your derie ( your wife, girlfriend, lover, woman in my own opinion. Women are like flowers, women need to be taken care of and not be hurt physically, emotionally nor verbally.

  1. Send her flowers
  2. Be a good listener
  3. Give her compliments
  4. Do not be selfish in bed., rather touch her and give her affection, not once a week, or in a year, but on daily basis.
  5. Gift her, please do not send your wife gift that is not from your heart.
  6. Please do destroy her items, rather help in maintaining it
  7. Men avoid verbal, mental, emotional abuse towards your wife.
  8. Do not take items or your wife’s belongings and sell them or give them to another woman without her knowledge.
  9. If your wife can not make children, please see a doctor, do an ivf (invitro fertilization)  if need be. Please do not insult her due to inability to get pregnant or try to solve the pregnncy issue by yourself as a man, rather do it together.
  10. Never judge your wife. Leave God in heaven to judge. If your wife makes mistake, do not beat her up in the house or on the street, rather correct her, guide and coach her
  11. Some men do set their wife up with other men in order to test her faithfulness towards him. Men, do remember that your wife is only human and not God, so please do not tempt your wife, rather, coach, teach, uplift and love her unconditionally.
  12. If your wife offends you, forgive her instantly, avoid setting her up with togs, implicating her or to a vulnerable situation.
  13. Do not stop her hone, her home internet connections, her browsing history, rather trust her
  14. These above-mentioned tips are also applicable to women. Women should also be nice, kind to their husband.
  15. Men, if your wife does tell you what she likes and not like, please stick to that, please do avoid engaging in the same activities that may upset her. For example, if your wife does like a tidy home, please keep it tidy all the time.
  16. Please do not ears drop on your wife, spy on her or deceive and lie to her, rather, protect her, guide and love your wife.
  17. Have fun and enjoy your marriage life.
  18. Never blame a woman for mistakes she did not commit intentionally. For example, if you just met your girlfriend, if you never asked her if she was married or not in the first place, before entering a relationship with her, do not blame her afterwards when you find out she is married because you never asked her in the first place. Some married women and men do keep their marriage status to themselves when they are not asked due to privacy reasons. It is not in my place nor yours to judge such individuals. Rather, be very sure of whom you are dating before finally deciding to marry them eventually.

 

Disclaimer, I am not a marriage expert rather, I am writing in regards to how I would be liked to be treated as a wife, hence I have some marriage experience.

I am very pleased to announce to you all that I have finally started writing my digital book here. Thank you all so much for your love, kindness and inspirations.

I love you!

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What I Do In A Day June 2020!

Hello, my amazing friends and family! How are you? I hope you all are doing well. Today, I am going to share with you what I do In a day! This is a highly requested blog post. Below are the basic activities I usually do in a day!

  1. Wake up
  2. Brush my teeth
  3. Make sure my entire house is clean and tidy
  4. Breakfast
  5. Dress up
  6. Do some groceries
  7. Do my hair and makeup
  8. Exercise and meditate
  9. Check and respond  to my email and social media sites
  10. Beauty sleep in the afternoon
  11. Run some errands and attend meetings
  12. Write on my blog and publish a youtube video
  13. Create some nice pictures, video, do my business, health and beauty consultancy job
  14. Pray!

It is very important to pamper yourself. Sometimes, I do like to sit in a warm bath and relax my nerves. I hope these basic daily activities of mine inspires you. I was a student mentor during my master’s degree studies at the University of Dundee in Scotland. If you need mentorship on how to plan and organise your day, please contact me.

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How To Earn Financial Assistance From The Dutch Gorvenment

Hello, my beautiful friends and family! How are you? I hope you all are doing well. This is a commonly asked question. I have been asked several time, if I do receive financial assistance from the Dutch government, my answer is no. I do not receive financial assistance. I do currently have my own business. There are several criteria you need to meet before (uitkering) financial assistance can be granted.

  1. You have to apply for your self. If you have someone registered on your address, you need to register with the person registered on your address. If you have children registered on your address, you have to include all the names of your children on the application form. Uitkering would not be granted to you if you have someone living in your address and the person can not apply alongside with the man or woman on the address if he or she is a student and not allowed to apply for uitkering due to the fact that the person is a student and not allowed to apply for uitkering.
  2. You have to submit your bank statement for the application.
  3. You have to make sure you have a registered address.
  4. If you are receiving alimentation from your husband, you need to declare how much you are receiving.
  5. If you are pregnant, uwv uitkering may be granted to you if you do have your own registered business.
  6. If you are receiving study financing (duo) you may not be able to receive uitkering
  7. If you are a mummy, nursing a newly born baby and can not start working immediately, because you need to nurse your newlyborn precious baby, please do ask the dutch gorvenment for financial assistance

Over a decade ago, I received uitkering from the Rotterdam municipality for a couple of months, The rotterdam gorvenment also sponsored by studies at Beauty partners in Rotterdam in The Netherland.  after a while, my uitkering was stopped when I started studying at the university. I started living in Middelburg at the end of my study year ar Rotterdam University of Applied sciences.  A few years ago, I applied for uitkering, in zeeland, it ws not granted because the person registered at my address then could not apply for uitkering alongside with me because of studies. I have been working as a self employed.

If you not wish to apply for uitkering, and need to start your own business, you need to register with the chamber of commerce in The Netherlands (kvk). If you need more coaching regarding starting your own business, please do contact me.

My dear friends and family, I hope this blog post inspired you. Thank you so much for reading my blog. Good luck!

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5 Top Ways To Stay In Shape!

Hello, my amazing friends! How are you? I hope you all are doing well! Today, I am going to share with you tips on how to lose weight. I am a mummy, I gained weight during my pregnancies, after giving birth, losing baby weight is paramount. During my pregnancy, I weight almost 100 kg at the third trimester. I am currently really working really hard to get back to my usual weight of 60 kg, although I am not currently overweight.

There is no greater feeling than having your healthy happy baby in your arms. it is very important for mummy to lose weight because I had caesarean section during giving birth to my baby, I could not start working out until after five months after giving birth, because I was so scared that my wound will open and hurt my self. Below are tips that would help you lose weight

1. Drink a lot of water. Sometimes we feel hungry, actually, you are not hungry, but rather thirsty. rather than eating, drink lots of water

2. Exercise often. cycle for one or two hours daily. You can go for a long walk too

3. Eat lots of fish, meat, vegetable and fruits. Avoid food that contains high carbohydrates ok

4. practise meal prepping and planning

5. Do lots of situps on a daily basis

6. Avoid starvation

Aside from losing weight, it is very important to take good care of your skin, for instance, if your weight went from two hundred kilograms to seventy kilograms, you may experience sagginess in your abdominal area. If you do not work out properly, you may also experience stretch marks if you do not use the right cosmetics.  Please see more skincare advice videos below

I hope these tips inspire you. Thank you so much for reading. Jumbo or Albert heijn has great food already made salad, lots of vegetables, food items, drinks and more that can help you, loose weight.

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Femme Luxe Tryon Haul 6th Edition

Hello, my beautiful friends and family! How are you today? I hope you all are doing well. This is the sixth collaboration of Femme Luxe. Femme Luxe sent me four lovely outfits. I am so happy with the amazing outfits I received from Femme Luxe, please find the pictures and videos below.

I had so much fun styling these outfits. The lovely outfits arrived a few days ago at my address in Zeeland.  The weather is great in The Netherlands, not too cold anymore during the day, so I wore these outfits indoors and outdoor. The black leather dress is very cute. I styled it with my lovely bonnie black shoes and canvas I bought from Amazon. The black leather dress is so nice, high quality and fits me well.

I also like the grey lounge wear and a brown dress too. I have been wearing beautiful dresses from Femme Luxe quite often. The dresses are very pretty, I like wearing the Femme Luxe dresses indoors, running errands, filming and during my photoshoots.

The black leather dress can be worn for a birthday party, as evening wear, as a date night outfit or just for chilling at home with your partner. The brown dress can also be worn for the above-mentioned occasions. The grey lounge wear is very comfortable and easy to style. If you do wish to run for a quick errand, you can simply wear a long winter jacket on top.

In the youtube video below, I shared with you the lovely outfits from Femme Luxe. I also shared with you tips on how to become more confident. Some of my international friends have asked me to share some great tips on how to improve one’s confidence. Confidence can be improved by wearing decent outfits, good makeup, beautiful skin, good English language or dutch language speaking skills and by having great supportive family and friends members.

Thank you so much Femme Luxe for sending these lovely dresses. I had so much fun creating this content for you guys! I would like to use this opportunity to thank my friends that has helped me to create these lovely pictures, although, some of the pictures I created myself.

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How To Achieve Clearer and Even Skintone 2020!

Hello, my beautiful friends and family! How are you? I hope you all are doing well. I have been a photo model for over sixteen years now. In order to be a photo model, one of the criteria is to have a nice body shape, even skin, and skills for posing. I have shot with so many photographers.

I wish to use this opportunity to advise models, mothers struggling with stretch marks, uneven skin tone after delivery, weight loss, persons suffering from acne, eczema, caesarean section scars and more, tips on how to achieve even, clearer, even, and glowing skin.

I feel so happy, blessed and happy to be a mother. Every parent loves, cherish and adores their kids. Aside from showering all the love, care and tenderness to our kids, we need to shower love, care and tenderness to ourselves as well.

  1. Use bio-oil on your skin. I gave birth to my first child over a decade ago, bio-oil has been a lifesaver. I massage bio oil on my stomach area, scar area, uneven skin tone area in order to achieve a beautiful, glowing skin every day in order to achieve a lovely, beautiful scar-free skin so that I may be able to work as a photo model.
  2. Drink lots of warm water.
  3. Have you just given birth with caesarean section or natural delivery, please do soak yourselves in the bath every day or jacuzzi if you are very buoyant with warm water,  Dettol to the water? Taking a warm bath every day will speed up the healing process of your scars. As soon as your scar is healed, you would be able to get back on your feet to indulge in sporting activities in order to shed the fat on the body accumulated as a result of pregnancy. This tip is meant for all mothers worldwide!
  4. Please use body scrub from Rituals, Dr Kneip every day to scrub your body!
  5. Eat great food. Avoid consuming excess carbohydrate, rather, eat lots of fruits and vegetables
  6. Excercise often, jogging, cycling, situps can help you lose weight and achieve glowing skin
  7. Have fun!

For many years, I have worked with men and women. My findings are, women that did not massage oil on their stomach every day during pregnancy and after pregnancy suffered severing scaring, Tommy sagging, excess stretchmarks.  Women that did take good care of their body by applying bio-oil or any other kind of oil on their skin had less or no stretch marks on their Tommy or underneath their breast areas. A lot of women also experienced sagginess on their breast as a result of breastfeeding.  in order to avoid breast sagginess and excess stretch mark on your breast area as a result of enlargement of the breast during breastfeeding,  a firm bra from hunke Moller is advised, daily administering of bio-oil is also recommended.

I hope this tip above is useful for all the ladies and gentlemen reading my blog! Thank you so much for reading my blog and remain blessed! I am a certified beauty, health and business consultant in The Netherlands. Please contact me if you would like to work with me.

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How To Make Money While Blogging!

Hello, my beautiful friends and family! How are you? I hope you all are doing well. Today, I am going to share with you tips on how to make money while blogging. Blogging is one of the best fun activities you can engage in.  I use my real name for blogging, you may decide to have a secret blog or anonymous blog with an abstract name. Below are tips on how to make money while blogging;

  1. Chose a cool name for your blog, e.g Middelburgfan.com
  2. You may decide to blog about photography
  3. You may want to use WordPress, Wix, Squarespace or one.com for hosting your site.
  4. Promote your work on Face, book, twitter, Pinterest, youtube
  5. Search for persons that do the same kind of activities on social media and follow their work and try to make friends with them
  6. Promote your work on marktplaats or any other advertising agency
  7. Use word of mouth marketing
  8. Have fun blogging!

I am a beauty, it, business and health consultant in The Netherlands. If you do need coaching on how to earn extra income, become self-employed, please contact me. I have helped several persons to start their own business in photography, beauty salon, nail salon, barbing salon, uber work, health adviser and more! Please contact me if you need my service.

p.s. Would you like to start photography as a hobby or a profession? Please shop for your fabulous camera at Media Markt. You may want to shoot nature, abstract or models in nice hotel rooms such as Van der Valk or Fletchers hotel.

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Items I Use To Create A Simple Day Makeup Look 2020

Hello, my beautiful friends and family! How are you today? I hope you all are doing well. This is a requested blog post. I have asked to share with you guys items I use to create my awesome makeup looks for this year 2020. I applied my makeup myself on these recent 2020 pictures of mine listed below.

  1. Mascara from Rituals
  2. Dior Lipstick
  3. Foundation from Mac
  4. Blush from Mac
  5. Eyeshadow from Jefreestar
  6. Eyeshadow from Urban Decay
  7. Eye pencil from Rimmel London
  8. Bronzer from Mac
  9. Eye Liner from Mac
  10. A primer from Pond cosmetics
  11. Finishing spray from Mac.
  12. Revolution Finishing powder from Boozyshop
  13. Concealer from la girl from Boozyshop

I also use other brands such as Rituals face wipes for removing my makeup, rituals face wash for washing my face. But these items listed above are the common beauty items I use for creating my makeup. I am a certified beauty consultant with a diploma in Makeup, Cosmetics, Perfume and Skincare from the prestigious beauty school Beauty Partners in Rotterdam in The Netherlands. I did work and did my internship at Kruidvat, Detuinen, Mooie Parfumerie and Parfum star in Rotterdam, The Netherlands.  I am also a photo model. I offer makeup tutorials, it consultancy and photography workshop via video call and face to face. Please contact me if you are interested in my services.

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My Current Favourite Beauty Items 2020!

Hello, my beautiful friends and family! How are you? I hope you all are doing well! I am a certified business, it, health and beauty consultant in The Netherlands. I have been practising beauty consultancy for over a decade now. I work online and offline too. Below I share with you a brand new video showcasing some of my current beauty products. Below is a list of beauty products I use for my self and also for my clients during the consultancy sessions;

  1. Ritual skincare items
  2. Dr Kneip
  3. Therme beauty products
  4. Channel perfumes
  5. Dior lipstick
  6. Hair from The Rosa Beauty
  7. Bio-oil
  8. Nivea day and night cream
  9. The Bodyshop shampoo

Aside from using these cool beauty products, Meditation is absolutely important. I am so thankful to Femme Luxe for sending me lovely dresses. I like wearing nice dresses. Thank you for reading and for your support and encouragement.

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Tips On How to Become A Professional Web designer/builder

Hello, my beautiful friends and family! How are you? I hope you all are doing great. Today, I am going to share with you on how to build a website and how to start a consulting business. A friend of mine I met nine years ago at Ajah Lagos Nigeria, just called me up yesterday and asked me to share you guys how to start it business. He met me, my uncle, aunties, my first son, my mummy so many members of my awesome family members in Lagos Nigeria over nine years ago. We work with oil firms in Nigeria and in The Netherlands.   He encouraged me to offer my it specialities with my fans, customers and followers.

In September 2017, I lodged at Best Western hotel Asaba for more than one week, during my stay at the hotel in Asaba, Delta State Nigeria, I met more than fifty members of my families and friends, I coached the majority of them on how to build a website, social media presence, business and it consultancy.  Anytime I went to Nigeria, most people asked me to coach them on how to build a website, blog and more hence I am a professional website builder. I truly enjoy offering digital marketing coaching all my friends, fans, customers.

I have built dozens of websites and blogs. In The Netherlands, the lowest cost of building a website is four hundred euros. Building a great website is very important. In order to start building a website for a client, you need to seek permission from the business owner/customer before building their website. Do not commence with building a website for a company without their permission.

There are few steps to adhere in order to build a  great website;

  1. create a professional/ personal email address.
  2. Buy a domain name from WordPress, Wix or other sites that suits you and that is easier for you to work with
  3. Make sure all the pictures, videos, and other items you require for publishing on your website.
  4. Do not plagiarise when building a website or blog.
  5. Make sure your website has SEO and sea (search engine optimisation and search engine advertising)
  6. Provide great value, accessible website, easy to navigate and make sure the customer’s journey on your website is enjoyable
  7. Have a social media presence. Create Facebook, Twitter, the Instagram account to promote your goods and services and provide solutions and customer care via social media.
  8. Advertise often online to create awareness!
  9. Have fun marketing and selling!

I hope these tips inspired you. Thank you so much for reading my blog! If you need it, business, fashion, beauty consultant, please contact me! I am a freelancer for Cavazinni recruitment agency in Nigeria. Please contact Cavazanni for cv updates, recruitments, training and more!

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