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How To Care For Your Dearie!

Hello my beautiful friends and family, how are you? Today, I am going to inspire all the men around the world on how to take care of your derie ( your wife, girlfriend, lover, woman in my own opinion. Women are like flowers, women need to be taken care of and not be hurt physically, emotionally nor verbally.

  1. Send her flowers
  2. Be a good listener
  3. Give her compliments
  4. Do not be selfish in bed., rather touch her and give her affection, not once a week, or in a year, but on daily basis.
  5. Gift her, please do not send your wife gift that is not from your heart.
  6. Please do destroy her items, rather help in maintaining it
  7. Men avoid verbal, mental, emotional abuse towards your wife.
  8. Do not take items or your wife’s belongings and sell them or give them to another woman without her knowledge.
  9. If your wife can not make children, please see a doctor, do an ivf (invitro fertilization)  if need be. Please do not insult her due to inability to get pregnant or try to solve the pregnncy issue by yourself as a man, rather do it together.
  10. Never judge your wife. Leave God in heaven to judge. If your wife makes mistake, do not beat her up in the house or on the street, rather correct her, guide and coach her
  11. Some men do set their wife up with other men in order to test her faithfulness towards him. Men, do remember that your wife is only human and not God, so please do not tempt your wife, rather, coach, teach, uplift and love her unconditionally.
  12. If your wife offends you, forgive her instantly, avoid setting her up with togs, implicating her or to a vulnerable situation.
  13. Do not stop her hone, her home internet connections, her browsing history, rather trust her
  14. These above-mentioned tips are also applicable to women. Women should also be nice, kind to their husband.
  15. Men, if your wife does tell you what she likes and not like, please stick to that, please do avoid engaging in the same activities that may upset her. For example, if your wife does like a tidy home, please keep it tidy all the time.
  16. Please do not ears drop on your wife, spy on her or deceive and lie to her, rather, protect her, guide and love your wife.
  17. Have fun and enjoy your marriage life.
  18. Never blame a woman for mistakes she did not commit intentionally. For example, if you just met your girlfriend, if you never asked her if she was married or not in the first place, before entering a relationship with her, do not blame her afterwards when you find out she is married because you never asked her in the first place. Some married women and men do keep their marriage status to themselves when they are not asked due to privacy reasons. It is not in my place nor yours to judge such individuals. Rather, be very sure of whom you are dating before finally deciding to marry them eventually.


Disclaimer, I am not a marriage expert rather, I am writing in regards to how I would be liked to be treated as a wife, hence I have some marriage experience.

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How To Care Of The Elderly In The Netherlands!

Hello, my beautiful friends and family! How are you? I hope you all are doing well. This is a requested blog post. The elderly persons in The Netherland need lots of care and attention. Persons above sixty years old are considered the elderly. The elderly persons who are well cared for tend to be happier and experience a longer life span. Elderly persons who are isolated and neglected tend to experience sadness, hopelessness, loneliness, heart failure and other disturbing health issues.

In The Netherlands, there are a lot of elderly persons. During my thesis research period with Rotterdam University of Applied science, one of my colleagues conducted research regarding loneliness amongst the elderly in The Netherlands, he found out that most elderly persons amongst his research population are very lonely.  Some of the reasons behind the loneliness of the elderly are due to the fact that they do not have frequent visits from their family members and friends, they are not independent and so on.  I have had the ample opportunity to have worked for some elderly persons in The Netherlands and in Scotland, then I was working with Allevo and Elder respectively.

In order to care better for the elderly and make them happier, the following are recommended;

  1. Visit the elderly often, at least every day of the week.
  2. Do not make them stay indoors all day for months without making sure their friends and family members visit them.  The elderly need company, they need someone to talk to, drink a cup of thee with or coffee and share laughter with. Isolation is very bad and unhealthy for the elderly.
  3. Take the elderly for a nice work in the park, children’s playground or to a nice restaurant for a decent dinner!
  4.  Hire help for them
  5. Help them with their daily activities such as self-care, personal hygiene and so on especially for the elderly with mobility issues.
  6. Have breakfast, lunch, and dinner every day. Eating alone can be very boring for the elderly
  7. If the elderly is suffering from acute arthritis, rheumatism, hire a physiotherapist or a professional masseuse to help them ease their pain.

I hope this blog post inspires you. I am a beauty and health consultant in The Netherlands. Please contact me if you need my services.



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Qualities Of A Good Wife!

Hello, my adorable friends and family! I hope you all are doing well. One of my regular blog reader and follower requested I share this post with you guys to teach women how to treat their men. In my opinion a good wife has to be loving, caring, clean and keep the house tidy, have good hygiene, respectful, be a good listener to her husband, never say negative or insulting words to her husband or children, never hit your man, never kick him out of the house because you may end up chasing him in the sweet arms of another woman, be patient, understanding, never check his emails, spy on your man or read his phone messages,gossip other women with her husband or in front of their kids, never starve her husband or kids, take the cloths to the laundry if she can not wash by herself, cook or prepare good meals, never do things or involve in actions to hurt a wife, mother, woman like you, if you can not cook, thuis bezorgd and other website has amazing sites for great food, trust him with all your heart and soul, care for him and his family, never gossip or discuss your husband with a stranger, be sweet, hot, spicy,be romantic, dance together, be willing to support her husband financially, morally, cuturally, intellectually in  the best way she can. Never judge a book by its cover, that means do not jump into conclusion over your husband/or wife before truelly, really to get to know them very well. I love to be caring and sweet to my man when am in a relationship. Men, please do the same to your woman! Be great and sweet to your wives too!

I hope these tips inspired you.

My loving friends, please do share with me and coach me on how to become a better lover, mother and care, I would love to learn from you.

I love you so so much!


Ekene Patience



Hallo, mijn lieve vrienden en familie! Ik hoop dat het goed gaat met jullie allemaal. Een van mijn vaste blog-lezers en volgers verzocht om deze post met jullie te delen om vrouwen te leren hoe ze hun mannen moeten behandelen. Naar mijn mening moet een goede vrouw liefdevol zijn, zorgzaam, schoon en het huis opgeruimd houden, goede hygiëne hebben, respectvol zijn, een goede luisteraar voor haar man zijn, nooit negatieve of beledigende woorden tegen haar man of kinderen zeggen, nooit je man slaan, gooi hem nooit het huis uit, want je zou hem misschien kunnen sturen in de zoete armen van een andere vrouw, geduldig zijn, begrijpen, zijn e-mails nooit lezen, je man bespioneren of zijn telefoonberichten lezen, andere vrouwen roddelen met haar man of voor hun kinderen, haar man of kinderen nooit uithongeren, de kleren naar de was brengen als ze niet alleen kan wassen, koken of goede maaltijden bereiden, nooit dingen doen of betrokken zijn bij acties om een vrouw, moeder, vrouw zoals jij pijn te doen , als je niet kunt koken, thuis bezorgd en andere website heeft geweldige sites voor lekker eten, vertrouw hem met je hele hart en ziel, zorg voor hem en zijn familie, roddel nooit of bespreek je man met een vreemde, wees lief, heet, pittig, romantisch zijn, samen dansen. Ik ben dol op zorgzaam en lief voor mijn man als ik een relatie heb. Mannen, doe alsjeblieft hetzelfde met je vrouw! Wees ook geweldig en lief voor je vrouwen!

Ik hoop dat deze tips je hebben geïnspireerd.

Mijn liefhebbende vrienden, deel me alsjeblieft en coach me om een betere minnaar, moeder en zorg te worden, ik zou heel graag van je leren.

Ik hou zo veel van jullie!


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My Favourite Kind of Love!

Hello my loves! I hope you all are doing great! I have conducted several interview from social media family members and friends, I asked several of you, what is your favourite kind of lover? Your answers are so similar to my own very kind of favourite lover.

My favourite lover has to be kind, handsome, loving, caring, sweet, forgiving, spontanous, caring, great cook, great hygiene, humble,  must not betray me and easy going . Love is a beautiful thing. We all wants be loved, cared about, given attention, taken to our favourite restaurants. Love requires alot of patience, understanding. Many of us expect our lovers to give us love in order to feel loved! Do you kow that giving your self love would make you feel great! Love your self, take good care of you, give your self a nice channel perfume once in a while,  apply makeup, take your self to a nice hotel ,, enjoy a mini lunch. If you do not have a lover, do not feel bad, be happy. If you do have a lover, husband, cherish the love you have.

Some parents with  new born children may face challenges sharing love equally to their older children because they have to pay more attention to new born baby, all you need to do is assure your older kids you love them too, do make them understand you love them and they mean the world to you.

By the way, you also need to show love to the items you have, such as cloths, care, houses, maintain them, use them carefully and apply maintenance I enjoy sharing my love by serving people in hotels and restaurants, cleaning my home and that of others too!

Who is your favourite kind of lover?  I do love to learn from you!

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I love you so so much!


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by the way, today is my sons birthday. Happy Birthday my baby, my oldest son, my pride! Mummy loves you more than you know it!



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Hallo mijn liefdes! Ik hoop dat het goed gaat met jullie allemaal! Ik heb verschillende interviews van familieleden en vrienden van sociale media uitgevoerd, ik heb een aantal van jullie gevraagd, wat is je favoriete liefde? Je antwoorden zijn zo vergelijkbaar met die van mijn eigen soort favoriete geliefde.

Mijn favoriete liefde moet vriendelijk, knap, liefdevol, zorgzaam, lief, vergevingsgezind, spontaan, zorgzaam, goed kokend, goede hygiëne, nederig, moet me niet verraden en makkelijk in de omgang zijn. Liefde is een mooi ding. We willen allemaal dat we geliefd, verzorgd en aandacht krijgen en naar onze favoriete restaurants worden gebracht. Liefde vereist veel geduld, begrip. Velen van ons verwachten dat onze geliefden ons liefde geven om geliefd te voelen! Denk je dat het geven van je zelfliefde je een goed gevoel zou geven! Geef jezelf liefde, zorg goed voor jezelf, geef jezelf af en toe een mooie parfum, pas make-up toe, neem je zelf mee naar een leuk hotel, geniet van een mini-lunch. Als je geen geliefde hebt, voel je dan niet slecht, wees dan gelukkig. Als je een geliefde hebt, man, koester dan de liefde die je hebt.

Sommige ouders met pasgeboren kinderen kunnen het moeilijk hebben om dezelfde liefde voor hun oudere kinderen te delen, omdat ze meer aandacht moeten besteden aan pasgeboren baby’s. Het enige wat u hoeft te doen is uw oudere kinderen verzekeren dat u van hen houdt, ze laten begrijpen dat u van hen houdt en ze bedoelen de wereld voor jou.

Trouwens, je moet ook liefde tonen voor de items die je hebt, zoals kleding, zorg, huizen, onderhoud ze, gebruik ze zorgvuldig en pas onderhoud toe Ik geniet ervan mijn liefde te delen door mensen in hotels en restaurants te dienen, mijn huis schoon te maken en ook die van anderen!

Wie is je favoriete liefde? Ik vind het leuk om van je te leren!

Alsjeblieft, deel dit bericht.

Ik hou zo veel van je!



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How To Develop A Long Lasting Relationship!

Hello my  dearest friends, I hope you all are doing great! I am so pleased to share with you my thoughts on how to develop love and long lasting relationship with your friends, family, brothers and sisters and also with your collegues. Love is a great thing, it is very important to share and express love with your brothers, sisters, mother, sibling. I remember while growing up, my parent gave me and my siblings the best love ever, my parent  gave us proper training, we had great bond, i am my siblings went to the same primary and secondary school, church, had almost the same friends, we slept together everyday on daily basis, today I still remember vividly my youthful age. I am so thankful to my parent for their undilluted love.

Share love with your husband, boyfriend, tell them everyday how  loving and special they are to you, doing so, you tend to practise emotional attunement. Practise daily comunication with each other, trust others, have healthy conflicts, if one misbehaves and apologies, try to apologise and forgive because no one is perfect.

In a loving relationship, you have to ask your self, do i trust my partner? trust is the most important aspect of a long lasting relationship. Avoid fighting with your partner, rather ask yourself is this a battle i do wish to indulge in.

All in all, love one another, spend quality time with your loved ones and never give up on the one you love no matter the circumstance. I hope you are inspired!

I love you


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New born baby Kenneth in Nigeria

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Special Healthcare Tips For You !

Hello family!!! Yes, I called you family because i regard my online community as family. Massage is very important because your muscles get inflamed after working out, getting a massage will help all the toxins in your body out . Massage helps to clean your body internally. I love to get massage on my hair, face, neck and that makes me feel very cool!

Manicure and Pedicure is also very important to make you look so fabulous, it is impotant to maintain your self very well. A nice hot bath will help you feel better and an awesome self care tip. Lush has really nice scented balms and stones for bath. You may also want to try out bath soap from Dr Kniep, you can get it from De tuinen or Kruidvat. Pamper your self by lodging in a very nice hotel with welness Once in  a while, at least once a month!

Spend quality time with your family,  visit cool restaurants such as Fletchers, Van Der valk, Hilton, Amadore, Sheraton hotels, there are also very affordable places to hang out such as mcdonald,kfc, burger king or a short quick picnic by th seaside.

It feels better when you hang out very often with your family and loved once at least every week, because it helps in bonding .

Thank you so much for reading!

How do you spend quality time with your loved ones?

I do love to learn from you.

I love you so much!


Ekene Patience


Hallo-familie !!! Ja, ik heb jullie familie genoemd, omdat ik mijn online gemeenschap als familie beschouw. Massage is erg belangrijk omdat je spieren ontstoken raken na het sporten. Een massage zal alle gifstoffen in je lichaam helpen. Massage helpt je lichaam intern te reinigen. Ik ben dol op massage van mijn haar, gezicht, nek en dat geeft me een heel goede gevoel!

Manicure en pedicure zijn ook erg belangrijk om je er zo fantastisch uit te laten zien, het is heel belangrijk  om je zelf heel goed te houden. Een lekker warm bad zal je helpen je beter te voelen en een geweldige zelfzorg tip. Lush heeft echt mooie geurende balsems en stenen voor in bad. Misschien wil je ook badzeep van Dr. Kniep uitproberen, je kunt het krijgen van De tuinen of Kruidvat. Soms moet je jezelf verwenen door in een heel mooi hotel met welness te verblijven. Af en toe, minstens één keer per maand!

Het voelt beter als je vaak met je familie rondhangt en er minstens één keer per week van houdt, omdat het helpt bij het verlijmen.

Bedankt veel voor het lezen!

Hoe breng je quality time door met je geliefden?

Ik hou zoveel van jullie!




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Happy Birthday Son!


Happy birthday my adorable loving son! You have been a great blessing to our family, I love you. You have been an amazing kid, Always so happy, kind, selfless and healthy son. I love you and your brother from the bottom of heart. I give God the glory for your life.

Both of you boys have been amazing blessed and intelligent  kids!

I just want to use this opportunity to thank all my amazing friends and family members for all your love and support. I do appreciate all your support towards us.

thank you!

Gefeliciteerd lieve Timo!

Ik hou van je!



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Feel Good Therapy For Winter!!!

Hi lovelies, I hope you all are doing well. As a certified beauty consultant and biochemist, I learnt alot during my study years on some cool tips on how to feel good especially during the winter period, whereby the weather seems to be cold all the time. These are some tips for you:

  1. Drink lots of flavoured thee, soup, my favourite soup are fish soup, tomato, lentil soup.
  2. Dance dance dance or go for a walk. Taking a long walk or cycling can be very helpful. you tend to receive fresh air and experience beautiful nature.
  3. Do your manicure, pedicure, makeup, wash , clean your self and be ready for the day even if you do not have anywhere to visit
  4. Hang out and spend some quality times with friends and family.
  5. Buy your self a present. You do not wait until you receive a present from someone, you may give your self a nice flower or perfume.
  6. If you live in a cold (winter) country like the Netherlands, Belgium, you may want to visit a Sunny country such as the Maldives, Seychelles for holidays
  7. Pamper your self, visit a spa for massage, pampering, if you have enough money go on vacation to a nearby holiday homes, luxirious hotel etc
  8. If you are really bored and do not have much to do, start a class, you may start to tke a laguage lesson, beauty classes etc

I hope these tips were helpful!

p.s. I am not a medical doctor, these are just tips i use my self and has helped me alot to pep up my moods. If you are feeling very sad, depressed and experiencing some anxiety attack, I do advice you to see your doctor.

I love you


I just want to use this medium to say a big congratulations to my little sister for the birth of your newborn baby! I love you both so much.

And also a big congratulations to my older son for acquiring your b diploma for swimming. I am so so proud of you.


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Having a positive mindset can improve your mood, I was watching t.v. the other day, a lady with terminal cancer was being coached by her doctor on how to overcome the anxiety she felt as a result of her ailment, the doctor advised her to pretend as if she is perfectly fine (live in denial), she should never think about the fact that she has cancer and would die in few year, the lady admitted that denial helped her to overcome depression, anxiety and sadness her ailment  caused her. She felt better and was more positive.  These are some more tips that would help you feel better.

  1. Celebrate even your smallest success. Keep a journal, write down 3 things each day that you are grateful for or went really well.
  1. Speak positively and in the present tense – instead of ‘I want to be happy’, change it to ‘I am happy’.
  1. Know that you can choose your thoughts. Train your mind to focus on the good in your life.



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Holidays in Spain!

I and my amazing family had an awesome holidays in Mallorca Spain! Spain is a great place to live, visit, have fun. The food there is perfect! We were at the beach alot! The night life and hotels there is superb! You can book for holidays at Sunweb in The Netherlands. Klm also has fare rates for your trips without delays and stress!

I wore several styles outfits during my family vacation in Spain. If you ask anyone what style means to them, chances are the majority are going to have some variation of this answer: Style is expression. From the shoes on your feet to the jewels around your neck, fashion gives us a chance to explore different ways to express ourselves. I’ve always seen style as confidence-building; as an adolescent and a young adult I always had reservations about how to dress myself and what I could and couldn’t experiment with. But I’ve become so comfortable with the idea of testing out different styles that I may not normally have thought were “me,”
I hope these looks inspires you!
je tem!

I highly recommend spain for your next holiday destination!

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