Confidence is one thing we all struggle with from time to time especially if you are an introvert. Here is a short story for you. Once upon time, Over a decade ago, I was a very very shy girl, my girlfriend’s then at Nnamdi Azikiwe University Awka Nigeria then in Nigeria during the pre science programme I took part in for one year in order to study medicine after the programme ( although I ended up studying biochemistry on another university and graduated as a biochemist) literally forced me to contest for a beauty pageant, because I did not have nice cloths, not enough money, not such a popular girl at shool then,Also did not have enough confidence to contest for the miss Mbaukwu beauty pageant, my friends had to rally around to all the necessary items I needed for the pageant such as awesome shoes ,cloths, I needed,
My girlfriends also helped me to organise people that would cheer me up then during the beauty pageant. Guess what , I won the beauty pageant. In essence , if you are not a very confident person, you need to hang around with friends and family whom reminds you of how amazing you are. Secondly, try to make new friends, wear neat Cloths , practise self grooming, read books on how to be more confident, listen to online tutorials too. All these tips would enable you make new friends and become more confident. Eating well, wearing makeup, emulating from very confident people (role models, mine are Bob Proctor, Naomi Cambell, Beyonce, Rihanna, Genevieve Nnaji, Prink and many more ) being in shape and exercising often is also an optimum way to stay in shape and look fabulous. I hope these tips inspired you. I love you so much.
Hello lovelies, these are some things you need to change your life!
You need to be inspired by what you see, feel and here. Look around you, search deep down and ask yourself, what my passion is. If you are able to answer that question sincerely, work towards it. Never work on the dark side of life. You do make mistakes, learn from it and move on. Do not let your mistakes weigh you down but rather use it as an opportunity to learn some lessons.
‘Creating mood boards, searching the internet, and looking up to others is a great way to give yourself focus and inspiration for what changes you actually want to see in your life. For me I like to create inspiration boards in lots of areas but specifically Relationships, Body & Business. My advice, determine your key life areas and get that inspiration up. You can use social media tools such as Pinterest to create mood board for inspiration.
Its great t be inspired. I gain a lot of inspirations from taking a long walk in the city or in the park, reading magazines, surfing the internet and social media. Do not be carried away by what you see on virtual life because some of what you see is not real. You might want to listen to some great inspirational speakers as well such as Bob Proctor.
Confidence is very important in life, Just ike the bible says, ask and ye shall be given, seek en ye shall find, knock and it shall be open. Try to find the confidence to chase your dream. Alhough, confidence does not just happen, it requires lots of self-discipline and it depends on your state of mind.
Being in shape also helps to boost your confidence. Try to wear the proper cloths, practise good hygiene, eat well and catch some sound sleep.
I hope these tips inspires you!
I love you so much!