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How To Develop A Long Lasting Relationship!

Hello my  dearest friends, I hope you all are doing great! I am so pleased to share with you my thoughts on how to develop love and long lasting relationship with your friends, family, brothers and sisters and also with your collegues. Love is a great thing, it is very important to share and express love with your brothers, sisters, mother, sibling. I remember while growing up, my parent gave me and my siblings the best love ever, my parent  gave us proper training, we had great bond, i am my siblings went to the same primary and secondary school, church, had almost the same friends, we slept together everyday on daily basis, today I still remember vividly my youthful age. I am so thankful to my parent for their undilluted love.

Share love with your husband, boyfriend, tell them everyday how  loving and special they are to you, doing so, you tend to practise emotional attunement. Practise daily comunication with each other, trust others, have healthy conflicts, if one misbehaves and apologies, try to apologise and forgive because no one is perfect.

In a loving relationship, you have to ask your self, do i trust my partner? trust is the most important aspect of a long lasting relationship. Avoid fighting with your partner, rather ask yourself is this a battle i do wish to indulge in.

All in all, love one another, spend quality time with your loved ones and never give up on the one you love no matter the circumstance. I hope you are inspired!

I love you


Ekene Patience

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New born baby Kenneth in Nigeria

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Effortless LookBook For Winter 2018!

So it’s still freezing out here in Europe so thought i’d share with you my current favourite winter outfits!

I hope you are inspired! Wishing you all a fabulous week

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Jacket – H &M

Dress – MET

Shoes- Man Field

Stay Ups – H&M

Handbag- Michal kors

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Shoes- Mallorca Spain

Jeans- Tommy Hilfiger

Top – C&A

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White Rice With Prawn Curry!!!

Hello lovelies, I hope you all are doing great. I thought I’d share with you  how to prepare your very own delicacy, white rice with curry prawn. A lot of my friends and family members has requested severally from me to share my cooking skills. I enjoy cooking and love delicious food.  This meal is very easy to prepare, ideal for ladies on diet and bachelors.


– Cooked Peeled Prawns

– Olive Oil


– Garlic

-Green/Yellow Peppers

-Chilli (Scotch Bonnets x 1 maybe 2 Lol)

-Dunn’s Curry powder x 1 Tbsp

– Soy Sauce

– Basimati rice


– Tomato Paste

–  Lime1/2

Dice onions, peppers and chilli, in a heated pan sprinkle 2 tablespoons of oil then add your peppers onions & prawns. You may purchase already diced vegetables at the super market. My favourite supermarkets are Tesco, Albert heijn and mark and spencers.
Sprinkle half a lime for flavour & light soy sauce. Then add your chilli & a teaspoon of curry powder, a teaspoon of tomato paste & stir well.

For rice preparation, wash the rice first, per boil it and wash it again,  sprinkle some garlic or onions in it and add salt to it, be careful so you do not add too many salt.

I hope this blog post inspired you.

Thank you so much for reading!


Ekene Patience


Hallo schatjes, hoe gaat het met jullie? Ik dacht dat ik met jullie zou delen hoe je je eigen delicatesse kunt bereiden, witte rijst met curry-garnaal. Veel van mijn vrienden en familieleden hebben mij verzocht om mijn kookvaardigheden te delen. Ik geniet van koken en hou van lekker eten. Deze maaltijd is heel gemakkelijk te bereiden, ideaal voor dames met een dieet en bachelors.


– Gekookte gepelde garnalen

– Olijfolie


– Knoflook

-Groen / gele paprika’s

-Chilli (Scotch Bonnets x 1 misschien 2 Lol)

-Dunn’s Curry poeder x 1 eetlepel

– Sojasaus

– Basimati rijst


– Tomatenpuree

– Lime1 / 2

Dobbel uien, paprika’s en chili, voeg in een verwarmde pan 2 eetlepels olie toe en voeg uw paprika-uien en garnalen toe. Je kunt al gesneden groente kopen op de supermarkt. Mijn favoriete supermarkten zijn Tesco, Albert Heijn en Mark en Spencers.

Strooi een halve limoen voor de smaak en lichte sojasaus. Voeg vervolgens je chili en een theelepel kerriepoeder, een theelepel tomatenpuree toe en roer goed.

Voor rijstbereiding, was de rijst eerst, kook het en was het opnieuw, bestrooi wat knoflook of uien daarin en voeg zout toe, wees voorzichtig, zodat je niet te veel zout toevoegt.

Ik hoop dat deze blogpost je heeft geïnspireerd.

Heel erg bedankt voor het lezen!


Ekene Patience

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4 Simple Ways To Learn Dutch Language!

Hello lovelies, I hope you all are having a wonderful christmas celebration! I am so excited and looking forward to 2018! 2017 has been a very blessed and wonderful year. I appreciate my family and friends and give God the glory for his faithfulness. Please do remember to share love, gift and joy with your friends and families too.

I have  so many expatriate friends whom do love to learn dutch language. I also have some friends from Russia, Poland whom desperately do want to learn english language.  This blog post would inspire you on four simple ways to learn dutch or any other languages real fast! I have practised these methods and it worked for me. I learnt speaking dutch language within one year!

  1. Learn dutch via skype. You can find tutor online via Facebook, marktplaats and just by searching dutch teacher wanted on google.
  2. Listen to dutch children or any other language programme. Dutch has a lot of television senders ( i love watching teletubbies) its fun to learn dutch by watching kids cartoons as well!
  3. Make friends with dutch people. The dutch people are very amiable and kind. you can make friends at the library, park, zoo etc
  4. Read simple dutch sentences online and listen to dutch audios!

I hope these tips are helpful.

Thank you so much for reading!

Bedankt voor het lezen!

Ik hoop dat jullie zijn geinspireerd.


I love you.

ik hou van jullie!




How To Find a Job!!!

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Hiya Muffins, I hope you all are doing great. Have you guys been wondering how to find a new job lately?

Well here are some cool tips on how to do so.

  1. You can register your own business at chamber of commerce and become self employed person ( you may need a website as well. or wordpress can be used for building a website)
  2. Work for a boss, search website such as LinkedIn, indeed, monster board, studentjobs, Linkedin, jop rapido, for job offers.
  3. Become a photo model, actor, figurant in movies, search for casting calls on Facebook, twitter, goggle by using the right keyword.
  4. Become a you tuber, make movies and promote your self on other social media sites such as Facebook, twitter, Instagram.
  5. Promote products for other businesses or become a drop shipper.
  6. Start selling your own stuff you do no need on ebay.
  7. Contact companies directly, e.g if you are interested in cleaning jobs, search for cleaning job agencies in your area by searching on google, use the right key word, call or email them
  8. Search on Facebook for job coach, ask your friends who do work how they found their job.
  9. connect with alumni by attending events.

Remember, working would enable you earn money. money is important for enjoying a decent lifestyle such as spending quality time with your family and friends, going on vacation to Maldives, Barbados or other awesome countries, buying nice cars, houses and so on.

I hope you are inspired. Please do let me know if these tips were helpful.

I love you.




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Budget Party Planning Tips!!!

Hey muffins, want to throw your child, spouse or colleague a party on budget? Here are some cool clever cost-cutting ideas:

  1. Go digital in inviting people, do not spend money printing cards for your bash, rather invite them via Facebook or Whatsapp.
  2. Tap your network for entertainment, contact a friend that is good for MC, can sing or dance instead of inviting an expensive artist to perform.
  3. Order birthday decorative items online, sites such as Ebay, amazon, has very affordable birthday or bridal party decorative.
  4. You do not need to cook expensive meals, you may serve, fried meat, chicken, gizzard and some loempias.
  5. Buy your kids, spouse or colleague awesome gifts that can last them for very log time such as wrist watches, headphone etc. You may want to give a gift card from Fashion chick, topshop, Tesco, albert heijn or
  6. Wear cloths you already have for the party as long as the clothing is clean and well kept, you may just buy some trendy accessories to make it look more glamorous.

I hope these tips where helpful!

I love you so much.


Ekene Patienc

p.s. A VERY BIG THANK YOU to all my friends worldwide,  family at home home and abroad for all your kindness, support ! I appreciate you so much…


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Time for Confidence!!!!

Confidence is one thing we all struggle with from time to time especially if you are an introvert. Here is a short story for you. Once upon  time, Over a decade ago,  I was a very very shy girl, my girlfriend’s then at Nnamdi Azikiwe University Awka Nigeria  then in Nigeria during the pre science programme I took part in for one year in order to study medicine after the programme ( although I ended up studying biochemistry on another university and graduated as a biochemist) literally forced me to contest for a beauty pageant, because I did not  have nice cloths, not enough money,  not such a popular girl at shool then,Also  did not have enough confidence to contest for the miss Mbaukwu beauty pageant, my friends had to rally around to all the necessary items I needed for the pageant such as awesome shoes ,cloths, I needed,

My girlfriends also helped me to organise people that would cheer me up then during the beauty pageant. Guess what , I won the beauty pageant. In essence , if you are not a very confident person, you need to hang around with friends and family whom reminds you of how amazing you are. Secondly, try to make new friends, wear neat Cloths , practise self grooming,  read books on how to be more confident, listen to online tutorials too.  All these tips would enable you make new friends and become more confident. Eating well, wearing makeup, emulating from very confident people (role models, mine are Bob Proctor, Naomi Cambell, Beyonce, Rihanna, Genevieve Nnaji, Prink and many more ) being in shape and exercising often is  also an optimum way to stay in shape and look fabulous. I hope these tips inspired you. I love you so much.


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Healthy Lunch Ideas!!!

Hello lovelies, Hope you all are doing terrific!!! I was inspired by my girlfriend to write this post. She prepared very delicious pancakes,I tasted it, it was awesome!!! She added cheese and ham to it. She also taught me how to prepare pancaks.

How do you prepare a delicious pancake?  you set a hot pan on the as cooker, add a little oil to the pan and then add the mixed flour in the pan, set the heat very low. After 3 minutes, you have made your self a very delicious pancake. You may add cheese, fish or ham to it.

My other healthy lunch ideas are:

  1. Salad  wth fish, chicken  or beef. Lidl, Emte or albert heign has very affordable packed sald mixed and weel packaged
  2. Fruit salad, you may combine, apple, per, orange, strawberries and add a little honey to it. its so delicious. You may want to eat your fruit salad with yoghurt or a hot cup of thee.
  3. Chicken. I love chicken, KFC and mcdonald chicken nuggets are my favourites. I also love baking chicken at home. I usually add nando’s hot chicken peri-peri source
  4. Preparing smoothie home is a great way to stay healthy. You may want add fresh fruits and vegetables to your smootie.

Avoid too much fatty food, practise meal preping. Please see more pictures of healthy food idea here i specially selected.

I hope you are inspired.

I love you.


Ekene Patience

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Dinner Date Outfit Ideas!!!

Hi lovelies, During your dinner date with that special one, let your personality and sense of style shine through! It’s all about getting to know each other, so start by putting your best foot forward with the perfect first date outfit.

There are several kinds of outfits to wear for different occasions.

Long-term relationship outfits:

·         Statement-making tops

·         On-trend denim

·         Simple sandals

·         Simple jewelries

Movie Night

When it comes to movie date outfits, it’s a good idea to keep it casual & cool. Brave those chilly movie theater temps with a breezy blouse and your favorite skinny jeans. And when they pull out the old “yawn” move, just let it slide. Do not wear high heels because your feet might get swollen after watching movie and you might not be able to walk proerly afterwards. Speaking of movies, have you seen the movie ATOMIC BLONDE? Its a must watch. Head actress is Chalize Therone.

Go to slide GoDinner

If you’re going to the symphony, a broadway show or the nicest restaurant in town, slip into something feminine and timeless dress or a classic moto jacket. Throw on your favorite pumps or sandals (weather-permitting) to make your RSVP.


The go-to get-to-know-you date! It could be a super swanky new bar that just opened, or maybe it’s a fun and kitschy local dive. No matter the venue, an easy pair of distressed jeans and a flirty top (or dress) to match is a great way to make an impression while still keeping it laid-back and casual. I recommend jeans by Tommy Hilfiger, G star, Opus, Gant, Only.

I hope you are inspired!

I love you


Ekene Patience

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Best Places To Visit In Zeeland The Netherlands



Hello muffins! I hope you all are doing well! I have been living in Zeeland In The Netherland for a while now, and I have come to like it very much!There are awesome places you can visit that can make you fall deeper in love with Zeeland such as, Vacational homes of Roompot, restaurant de Afslag in Breskerns, Amadore Hotels and resorts, The Fletchers hotel, beachclub, De boulevard in Vlissingen and the cool shopping centres in Middelburg and  in Goes. You can even find cool designer cloths in some shops in Zeeland such cloths from GStar, Polo, Michael Kors bags, shoes from Omoda and Open 32. Cool cities to visit in zeeland includes, Domburg, Breskerns, Middelburg and Sluis

I truelly love zeeland and highly recommend Zeeland to my beautiful muffins in da house!

Please do share with me your favourite cities, I have been to Paris, London, Spain, Greece, Belgium, Germany and Nigeria, The Netherlands still remains my favourite country amongs all perhaps because I like cheese

Stay fabulous!!!


Ekene Patience


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